Mothers raising children far from home: between adaptation and preservation
Being a mother abroad is a constant act of reinvention. We adapt to new cultures, languages, and parenting styles, while trying not to completely let go of what shaped us: our traditions, customs, and most cherished memories. Migrating with a child or having one already in another country means navigating between two worlds, and often, being the bridge between them.
In my case, although I've lived in three different countries where certain typical Guatemalan celebrations don't exist, I've made it my mission for my daughter to grow up with some of that essence that shaped me so deeply. One of those gestures has been keeping the piñata tradition alive. It might seem simple, but every year, as I prepare the celebration and the piñata—even though it's somewhat exotic in our environment—I feel like I'm building a connection between my childhood and hers. And the best part: her friends enjoy it as much as she does, turning a Guatemalan tradition into a moment of shared joy.
Sharing our traditions not only preserves our identity, but also enriches those around us. It allows us to open doors, show other ways of celebrating, and teach our children that belonging to more than one culture can be a strength. Of course, it's not always easy. Sometimes it requires creativity, patience, and effort. But when you see your child's eyes light up with a tradition that was also part of your story, you know it's worth it.
I recommend that all mothers living abroad choose at least one tradition they grew up with and keep it alive. It's not about replicating everything, but about choosing what brought them joy and a sense of belonging. These small actions, done with love, strengthen bonds and create memories that will last a lifetime.
Because, in the end, despite the distance, it is those memories that sustain us. Let us ensure that the good of our roots is not only preserved, but also flourishes in new lands.
Mariana Tenas
Intuitive Artist and Director of Strategy and Communications at Sky Communications skycommunicationsgt.com / @Mtenas_ART Mariana Tenas









Excelente artículo, cómo madre expatriada de una niña de 8 años comparto totalmente el sentir, es importante para mí que mi hija conserve sus raices y compartir con ella lo que a mí me hizo feliz de niña.